Overwhelm is:
- A husband in Brazil and three kids in Berkeley
- Posting an ad for a new aide and receiving 80 responses, conducting phone screenings from the car, and squeezing interviews in around 19 other commitments.
- Watching my nearly 9 year old stutter so badly his whole face contorts as he wrestles with each word
- Not having a plan for the 9 year old's birthday in 4 days.
- Reading about PWS deaths and H1N1 and deciding, still begrudgingly, to get the vaccine
- Scheduling that vaccine and three other MD appointments in one week.
- Wondering why the 11 year old has been so quiet and lethargic for three days.
- Writing a two page letter to my 5 year old's pediatrician about her obsession with food because I can't possibly explain all of the nuances of the situation with her present at tomorrow's checkup.
- Wanting to edit my workshop piece for the class anthology but knowing I'm not going to have time.
- Wondering why my hair is falling out, I've gained 10 pounds, and I'm dizzy again.
- Other things I can't write in a blog for fear of upsetting certain individuals.
- Wanting to just forget it all and crawl into bed with a good book.
Heck. I think I will do that.
Check back tomorrow for an update. Will I use sunscreen to brush my teeth? Put the milk in the cupboard? Confuse the school start time and deliver the kid 15 minutes late? Or will I add a new blooper to the list? I bet you can't wait to find out!
Hang in there. Lean on us in spirit, at least. It's just way, way too much. And it will pass -- you know it does, deep down. I'm thinking of you, wishing I could somehow offer more than just solidarity...
ReplyDeleteI feel your exhaustion through reading this post!
ReplyDeleteHi Mary. I have just joined this site today after just hearing about it. I also have a son with PWS who is 2 and a half. I too have been overhwelmed since he was born (he is a twin so I have been even movre overhwelmed!). I read your first blog posting with interest remembering how hopeful I was while pregnant and wondering what happened when we heard the diagnosis. The grief and loss has been acute and chronic!
ReplyDeleteI look forward to corresponding with you and others who are surviving this major life change.
Thank you for sharing.
Genevieve in Canada
Genevieve, welcome! Somehow I just saw your comment here (from December) while I was printing old posts. I don't know how I missed it before. Thanks for getting in touch. You sum up the grief well -- acute and chronic! I look forward to connecting and hearing more about you and your family.
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